“Forgive her and try to work it out”

Item: Forgive her and try to work it out
Rating: 2
Author: u/Embarrassed_Day_9338

What Actually Happened

My girlfriend cheated on me with her best friend, and refuses to end their friendship for our relationship

What I wish I knew

"How to maintain boundaries in a relationship after infidelity"

Advice to Someone Facing This Now

If I could tell you one thing

"Communicate openly with your partner and set clear boundaries"

Regret Index

8/10

Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.

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relationship Category

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relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.

Same Outcome Band

74%

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