relationalabusive relationship
#RI-6a6b08cb·7 months ago·
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“I forgave him multiple times”
What Actually Happened
I'm still in love with him despite his abusive behavior, feeling anxious, broken, and weak
What I wish I knew
"He didn't truly love me"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't forgive abusers, it only makes them stronger"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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