relationshipTrust Issues
#RI-69a91252·2 months ago·
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“Forgave my girlfriend after she cheated on me mentally”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend looked up her classmate's social media and talked about him to her friends, but never contacted him. She hid and minimized her actions when I found out
What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was struggling with her feelings and would have handled it differently"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be too quick to forgive someone who has broken your trust, but also don't give up on the relationship if it's truly worth saving"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationship Category
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Same Outcome Band
14%
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