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Offer of help from in-laws on birthday

In-laws offered help on birthday, then withdrew offer

What I wish I knew
"Think through generosity before offering"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate clearly and honestly when giving or withdrawing help"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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