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RelationshipsFinancial Stress
#RI-6aa37dc7·26 days ago·
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Lookback: 1 decade of dating

Can't handle her financial situation anymore

She's unmotivated, dependent on me, and wasting money on unnecessary things

What I wish I knew
"She'd be more responsible and motivated"
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest and set clear financial expectations early on"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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