relationshipsCommunication
#RI-6a6b0372·7 months ago·
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“I want to discuss financial expectations with my girlfriend”
What Actually Happened
I've been paying for all my girlfriend's expenses, including personal ones, which is causing resentment
What I wish I knew
"To communicate my expectations clearly and respectfully"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear financial boundaries and communicate them openly with your partner"
Regret Index
7/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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