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#RI-6a7aaa51·about 1 month ago·
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I'm questioning our relationship

I feel unloved and unwanted in our relationship. He's not romantic or obsessed with me, and prioritizes video games and friends over me.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew if I'm just being insecure or if he truly doesn't love me."
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't settle for a relationship that makes you feel unloved and unimportant. Trust your feelings."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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