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#RI-69a91260·4 months ago·
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“Feeling stuck in a 5 year relationship”

My girlfriend has been behaving oddly since over a year, constantly needing to be back home by 10 PM when we're out together, constantly telling everyone she loves her girlfriends and not me, and depriving me of physical connection completely in the last few months.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew she was unhappy in the relationship or had issues with intimacy."
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner and address issues as soon as they arise."
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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