relationalmidlife crisis
#RI-69a91224·2 months ago·
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“Feeling out of love in 3-year relationship”
What Actually Happened
I've lost the feeling of being in love with my girlfriend, leaving me with a sense of responsibility and commitment.
What I wish I knew
"There's a difference between love as a choice and love as a feeling."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't confuse love as a commitment with love as a feeling, or you might lose the spark that brought you together."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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