RelationshipsAbuse
#RI-6aabcd6b·4 months ago·
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“To not tell my daughter about her biological father's abuse”
What Actually Happened
My wife was molested/raped by her older brother, causing her emotional distress and making me question our family ties
What I wish I knew
"How to navigate the situation without hurting my daughter"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest with yourself and your loved ones, even if it's hard"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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