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#RI-69a91420·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 week after second date

Failed to take BlueChew on second date

Lost erection twice with a woman I really like, felt awful and worried she thinks I have a serious issue

What I wish I knew
"To take BlueChew consistently to avoid anxiety"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your struggles and take necessary steps to address them"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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