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#RI-69aa8845·3 months ago·
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Lookback: Over 5 years of marriage

Failed to find support from wife

Wife stopped helping with children; wants me to be home for their visits

What I wish I knew
"We'd have communication issues in the future"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner about your needs"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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