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#RI-6aceff04·7 months ago·
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“she called her ex's name during intimacy”

My girlfriend called her ex's name during intimacy, making me feel sick and unsure about our relationship

What I wish I knew
"her feelings for me were genuine and she wasn't still in love with her ex"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner to avoid similar situations in the future"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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