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relationalcheating
#RI-6a7aaace·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 months since divorce

erased memories of ex-partner

Cheated on and divorced after 11 years of marriage, now struggling to move on

What I wish I knew
"don't erase memories of past relationships"
If I could tell you one thing
"grieve and heal before moving on"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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relational Category
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relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
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