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#RI-6a9eae58·8 months ago·
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“Tolerating excessive enthusiastic consent”
What Actually Happened
Boyfriend's constant requests for consent made me uncomfortable and decreased arousal
What I wish I knew
"How to communicate my needs without feeling weird"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate boundaries clearly to avoid discomfort"
Regret Index
2/10
Positive or neutral outcome.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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