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#RI-6a9f9148·7 months ago·
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“Enjoy first kid before second”
What Actually Happened
Everyone asks about second kid immediately after first is born
What I wish I knew
"Wait for first kid to grow before considering second"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Let new parents enjoy first kid before deciding on second"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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