relationshipConfusion and doubt
#RI-69a911e7·2 months ago·
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“Engaged to a partner I'm not sure I like”
What Actually Happened
Living together has made me realize I don't like my fiancée as much as I thought. I feel trapped and unsure about our future together.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had taken more time to think about my feelings before proposing."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Take your time and get to know your partner before making long-term commitments."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
Advice for Someone Facing This
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relationship Category
743
relationship decisions logged. Avg regret 7.5/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
73%
of relationship decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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