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RelationshipsConfusion and doubt
#RI-69a911e7·4 months ago·
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“Engaged to a partner I'm not sure I like”

Living together has made me realize I don't like my fiancée as much as I thought. I feel trapped and unsure about our future together.

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had taken more time to think about my feelings before proposing."
If I could tell you one thing
"Take your time and get to know your partner before making long-term commitments."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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