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RelationshipsCOCSA (Child-on-Child Sexual Abuse)
#RI-69a91845·4 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year later as an adult

“Engaged in COCSA with younger cousin at 9 years old”

Engaged in COCSA with younger cousin at 9 years old, causing guilt and self-hatred

What I wish I knew
"Understood the concept of wrongness at a younger age"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and acknowledge past mistakes to process guilt and move forward"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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