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RelationshipsAbuse
#RI-6ad59621·6 months ago·
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“To stay with my girlfriend”

She felt forced to be intimate with me, hurting me deeply

What I wish I knew
"She would've told me she didn't want intimacy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about boundaries and feelings"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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