What Actually Happened
My stbxh has been emotionally abusive and made false accusations about my past, causing me to feel guilty and ashamed. I'm relieved to be starting the divorce process and finally taking control of my life.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I'd recognized the signs of emotional abuse sooner and taken action sooner."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in a relationship where you feel belittled and disrespected. Take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
personal Category Average
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Impact
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