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RelationshipUnhappy long-term relationship
#RI-6aae0910·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 2 weeks after decision

Ended 8-year relationship due to unhappiness and loneliness

Boyfriend minimized feelings, name-called, and lacked attention, causing burnout and unhappiness

What I wish I knew
"He wouldn't change or support me"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize self-care in relationships"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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