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#RI-69f8748d·6 months ago·
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Separated from husband after 10 years of marriage

Husband's behavior (overfunctioning/underfunctioning dynamic, passive-aggressive manipulation) broke down the marriage

What I wish I knew
"How to set boundaries and maintain them"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't underestimate the impact of passive-aggressive behavior in relationships"
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Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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