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#RI-6a6b071a·7 months ago·
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Lookback: 30 years

Struggling in a loveless marriage

I've been living in a separate bedroom for 15+ years, feeling humiliated and depressed.

What I wish I knew
"I should've sought help for snoring and depression earlier."
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider seeking counseling and prioritize your own well-being in a relationship."
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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