RelationshipsBreaking Up
#RI-6ae6bced·6 months ago·
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“Ending non-exclusive relationship”
What Actually Happened
Told gay boyfriend I'm straight and want to break up, trying to minimize hurt
What I wish I knew
"How to be honest without causing more harm"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be honest, but kind and considerate of the other person's feelings"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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