RelationshipsAbusive
#RI-6a7aaa35·5 months ago·
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“left abusive partner after 2 years”
What Actually Happened
I stayed in an abusive relationship, blaming my partner for my own lack of boundaries. I left after realizing my avoidance was causing harm.
What I wish I knew
"Honest communication is key in relationships."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't blame your partner for your own issues, take responsibility and communicate your needs."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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