Relationshipsabusive relationship
#RI-69f87794·7 months ago·
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“Ended a 2+ year relationship with an abusive partner”
What Actually Happened
My boyfriend snapped and pulled a knife on our roommate, I disarmed him and he got arrested. I'm still in shock and terrified, but I know I made the right decision to end the relationship.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had taken his behavior more seriously and set boundaries earlier."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't stay in an abusive relationship, no matter how much you love the person. Your safety and well-being are worth it."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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