personalInfidelity
#RI-6a6b03e3·7 months ago·
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“Dated someone hiding a long distance relationship”
What Actually Happened
Found out I was the other woman after nearly a year of dating, feeling violated and betrayed
What I wish I knew
"Why he hid the relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of red flags and prioritize self-worth"
Regret Index
10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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personal Category
596
personal decisions logged. Avg regret 6.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
58%
of personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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