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relationshipAbusive
#RI-69a91718·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 1 year

Ended relationship after 9 years

Lost friends, education, self-esteem, and job after breakup

What I wish I knew
"Set boundaries and saw red flags earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek help and support before making drastic decisions"
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10/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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