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#RI-6acc5b5b·5 months ago·
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Lookback: 4 years later, 1 week of reflection

“Ended 4-year relationship after 1 week of reflection”

My girlfriend and I separated after 4 years together due to unhealthy communication and unmet emotional needs

What I wish I knew
"I wish I had addressed my emotional needs earlier"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly about emotional needs to avoid resentment and breakups"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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