RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-6a7aa949·7 months ago·
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“ended 10-year relationship after discovering infidelity”
What Actually Happened
Feeling depressed and lonely after breakup, especially at night, due to abandonment issues related to BPD
What I wish I knew
"Breakups can be just as hard on the one who leaves as the one who's left"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek professional help and practice self-care to cope with emotional pain"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
69%
of Relationships decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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