relationaltoxic relationship
#RI-69aa8726·3 months ago·
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“ended a toxic relationship”
What Actually Happened
I got involved with a coworker who turned out to be toxic and controlling. He took me to a trap house and engaged in manipulative behavior, including crossing boundaries and recording me without consent.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the red flags sooner and set boundaries earlier."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who make you feel uncomfortable or disrespected, and prioritize your own safety and well-being."
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relational Category
687
relational decisions logged. Avg regret 7.6/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
78%
of relational decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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