What Actually Happened
I got involved with a coworker who turned out to be toxic and controlling. He took me to a trap house and engaged in manipulative behavior, including crossing boundaries and recording me without consent.
What I wish I knew
"I wish I had seen the red flags sooner and set boundaries earlier."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Be cautious of people who make you feel uncomfortable or disrespected, and prioritize your own safety and well-being."
Regret Score
8/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
relational Category Average
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Impact
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Financial and Psychosocial impact distributions for this subset.
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