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relationaloutgrowing someone
#RI-69ba769b·4 months ago·
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ended a 10 month relationship due to growth differences

I felt like we were on two separate paths, I was growing, healing, evolving, but he wasn't, leading to resentment and falling out of love

What I wish I knew
"I wish I knew how to navigate growth differences in a relationship without feeling guilty"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't try to change or grow someone who isn't willing to, prioritize your own growth and well-being"
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6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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