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#RI-69ba75d0·4 months ago·
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Ended 6+ year relationship

Felt drained, mentally and emotionally, constantly stabilizing and managing situations. Had to deal with multiple crisis situations involving my partner, including threats of self-harm and physical instability.

What I wish I knew
"How to set boundaries and prioritize my own emotional well-being in the relationship"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be afraid to prioritize your own needs and seek help when needed"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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