RelationshipsBreakup
#RI-69a91764·4 months ago·
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“Ended 4-year relationship after 1 month of being back together”
What Actually Happened
My girlfriend broke up with me out of the blue after 4 years together, citing doubts about our future and her inability to give me quality time due to work.
What I wish I knew
"She had been struggling with these doubts for months and needed to have an open conversation about them before ending the relationship"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your doubts and concerns before making a decision that can affect both of you"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
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