RelationshipsMarital Issues
#RI-6ae80ceb·6 months ago·
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“I let him continue drinking despite the problems”
What Actually Happened
He resents me for pushing him to quit drinking, ruining social life
What I wish I knew
"How to deal with the resentment and anger"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about the issues and find a solution together"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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