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#RI-6a7aabd3·7 months ago·
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“Constantly enabling my mom's language barrier”

I'm exhausted from constantly translating and helping my mom with everyday tasks, despite her ability to speak English.

What I wish I knew
"Why my mom refuses to use her English skills in practical situations"
If I could tell you one thing
"Set clear boundaries and prioritize your own needs in similar situations"
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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