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#RI-6aa8c4ab·7 months ago·
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“Prioritize empathy over response”
What Actually Happened
Husband's lack of empathy crushed me, made me sad for him
What I wish I knew
"He's not as emotionally intelligent as I thought"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Make an effort to understand and validate your partner's emotions"
Regret Index
9/10
High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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