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#RI-69a913c3·4 months ago·
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“Emotionally regulating during arguments with husband”
What Actually Happened
Feeling frustrated when husband's therapist suggests self-soothing during arguments
What I wish I knew
"How to balance emotional regulation with partner's needs"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with partner about emotional needs"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
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The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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