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#RI-6a6b03c8·7 months ago·
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Being empathetic and kind in an unhealthy relationship

He cheated and punished me for being there for him after sharing his trauma.

What I wish I knew
"Red flags were there, but I gave the benefit of the doubt"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't be afraid to set boundaries in toxic relationships"
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High, persistent regret.
Has not decreased significantly with time.
SettledMixedSevere

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