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#RI-6a6b07d1·9 months ago·
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“Got married at 24”

Marriage felt like a huge adjustment, with arguments about unhappiness and emotional baggage

What I wish I knew
"Being with the right person should feel fun and easy"
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't rush into marriage, consider your own readiness and partner's emotional baggage"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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