marriageControl Issues
#RI-69aaf9da·3 months ago·
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“Don't project insecurity”
What Actually Happened
My constant need to control suffocated my partner
What I wish I knew
"Insecurity is a personal issue, not a partner's problem"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly and respect each other's choices"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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marriage Category
181
marriage decisions logged. Avg regret 7.9/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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