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#RI-6a6b06c9·9 months ago·
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“divorcing husband early this year”
What Actually Happened
Spouse helps with childcare, household chores, giving me a break as a stay-at-home mom. We've become closer lately, but I wonder if I'm taking advantage.
What I wish I knew
"Maybe my friend was right, I should consider my husband's feelings and efforts."
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly with your partner and appreciate their contributions, rather than assuming you're taking advantage."
Regret Index
5/10
Significant downsides.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
Complicated feelings about the outcome.
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Relationships Category
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Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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