RelationshipsDelayed Process
#RI-69ba7b6a·6 months ago·
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“Waited for STBXW to finalize divorce”
What Actually Happened
STBXW's social anxiety and indecisiveness dragged out the divorce process for 2 years
What I wish I knew
"Hire a lawyer from the start"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't wait for the other person to take action"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
3,331
Relationships decisions logged. Avg regret 7.2/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
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