RelationshipsSettlement Proposal
#RI-6a6b0701·9 months ago·
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“Negotiated with stbxw about alimony and 401k distribution”
What Actually Happened
Stbxw didn't take proposal seriously, wanted to go to court
What I wish I knew
"How to handle her non-negotiable attitude"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't low-ball your partner in a settlement proposal"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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