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#RI-6a7aaadc·6 months ago·
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Writing a letter to my ex-husband during divorce

My ex-husband's emotional abuse and cheating have caused our child to lie and feel lonely, and now he hates me.

What I wish I knew
"How to have a healthy marriage and communicate effectively with my ex for the sake of our child"
If I could tell you one thing
"Consider therapy and prioritize open communication to avoid chaotic divorces"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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