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#RI-6a6b080f·9 months ago·
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“Asking for a divorce”
What Actually Happened
Husband asked for help changing after being called out for narcissistic behavior
What I wish I knew
"How to set boundaries without being responsible for his change"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't feel obligated to enable someone's change, prioritize your own needs"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
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