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#RI-69ba7b35·6 months ago·
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“10 years with s/o, 4 married, 2 young kids”

Years of loneliness, disconnect, and resentment due to emotional abuse and lack of change

What I wish I knew
"Where to start with addressing unresolved issues"
If I could tell you one thing
"Seek outside help, such as therapy, to address underlying problems"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
SettledMixedSevere

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