PersonalFriendship
#RI-6abddf82·about 2 months ago·
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“I still don't want to be near him”
What Actually Happened
Friend's boyfriend said I deserve to be raped, triggered memories of my own rape
What I wish I knew
"He was truly sorry, but his apology didn't change how I feel"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Don't minimize someone's trauma with 'it was just one bad comment'"
Regret Index
8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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Personal Category
238
Personal decisions logged. Avg regret 5.4/10 across the category.
Same Outcome Band
49%
of Personal decisions land in the severe band the same as this one.
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