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#RI-6a7aa9de·2 months ago·
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Lookback: 19 years together

Disregarding partner's health concerns

My husband refused to buy condoms, implying infidelity

What I wish I knew
"That his concerns were rooted in insecurity"
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate openly about health and relationship concerns"
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8/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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