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#RI-6a6b046b·7 months ago·
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“Discussing weight gain and exercise with wife”
What Actually Happened
Wife gained 30-40 pounds, affecting self-image and attraction
What I wish I knew
"How to encourage wife to prioritize exercise without offending her"
Advice to Someone Facing This Now
If I could tell you one thing
"Communicate concerns openly and pragmatically, prioritize relationship over unconditional love"
Regret Index
6/10
Clear regret.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
The downsides outweighed what was gained.
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relationships Category
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Same Outcome Band
16%
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